o man that sucks really bad. i feel bad for ya man. i guess its time to start filling up that blank paper. give it some time you will meet another girl at some point
girlfriend of almost two years broke up with me
happened last wed. she went away to school, and promised me she would always love me and nothing could ever take her away from me before she left. its been only a month and she broke up with me, and now only 3 days after that she has another guy in the picture for herself. im devastated we planned a life together i loved her with all my heart. and im absolutely crushed. I cant sleep, i think about her SERIOUSLY 24/7, i cant eat. in the past week ive lost 10 lbs. she was going to be the only thing i had when i went to Ohio for school because she was going to be half the distance away from me as home and i was going to visit her every break i had. now i dont know what i am going to do, i was going to move to Rochester when i was done with psi so we could be together. now my future is a blank piece of paper. i just dont want to do anything anymore. it takes all my strength to just get out of bed. she loved the quad, snowmobile everything i did. and i loved everything she did she was going to major in ASL (american sign language) and i loved that. and now im all alone and cant stop thinking of her. i dont know what to do.
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Well, I hate to say it, but better now than later. If she could move on so quickly, then she wasn't the right one for you. It may seem like the weight of the world is on you, but your still young and she will easily be forgotton. just don't lose focus on the important things in your life. Good luck.
As stated above, that sucks but hang in there time will cure.
You are young and there are lots of fish in the sea. It does'nt seem like it now but you will see.
Don't just sit around, get out there and ride your R and snowmobil, keep the hobbies going to keep your mind off of her.
You are young and there are lots of fish in the sea. It does'nt seem like it now but you will see.
Don't just sit around, get out there and ride your R and snowmobil, keep the hobbies going to keep your mind off of her.
ive been through the same thing man and you cant let it get you down, Whats meant to be will be and if its meant to be she will come back. Give her some space. I know you dont wanna see it but it may take her being with someone else to realize how much she misses you. Being she just went to college im guessing she is around 18 or 19. She curious as to what else is out there and thats normal. Me and my girl are split up right now and have been officially split up since january. We still love eachother very much and still see eachother when time permits. We both took up different jobs and with jobs and hobbies we were having alot of trouble. She got into concerts and clubs and i didnt like doing that, i was always gone through the day riding and we felt like we werent making enough time for eachother. We decided to cut it off until we both matured a little more than pick up where we left off. Like i said we still use the 3 words and i feel like both sides mean it. I go party every weekend and yes i think about her (wheres she at, whats she doing, whos she with) but i just tell myself to ride it out and wait for the day cause thats what we made this decision for. So what im saying is your young, let time do its magic........dont do something stupid to make her not want to come back
As said, life will go on, and there will be someone else more loyal out there for you....
Actually, you should thank her for revealing her true identity to you before you got 5 or 10 years down the road, with other joint obligations
like marriage, a house, kids, etc. Although you don't see it now, she has done you a big favor, and karma will undoubtedly pay her back...
Just don't fall for her crying and telling you she wants you back after the current fling dumps her cheatin' azz!
Keep your head up man! I'm a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason, although sometimes it is hard to see at first.
BTW- Since I'm a bettin' man, I'd say the other guy has been in the picture for much longer than "3 days"....
Take it easy-
Kris
Actually, you should thank her for revealing her true identity to you before you got 5 or 10 years down the road, with other joint obligations
like marriage, a house, kids, etc. Although you don't see it now, she has done you a big favor, and karma will undoubtedly pay her back...
Just don't fall for her crying and telling you she wants you back after the current fling dumps her cheatin' azz!
Keep your head up man! I'm a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason, although sometimes it is hard to see at first.
BTW- Since I'm a bettin' man, I'd say the other guy has been in the picture for much longer than "3 days"....
Take it easy-
Kris
Man I have been through the same thing with a girl from high school we was together 4 yrs and I was lost at first.....Just try you best not to think of her or what she is doing and do things you enjoy to keep your mind off of her. Like they said everything happens for a reason. It will get easier but you need to move on and don't call her, email her, etc. etc., when she sees your giving her space she will have what she wanted and realize you truly do care for her. But I would not jump right back on board with her either if she calls wanting to try to work things out tell her it will take time and you need to get out there and mingle with some other women man now is the time to move on and play with some options and find another really good, faithful woman or now "women" until you settle back down.
Man up, take that blank piece of paper and write a story that your family and friends will talk about for years to come. You can do whatever you want now, so get started.
so your in college, pushing for a good career with a descent head on your shoulders. Nows the time to get some studying done, make some new friends and ride as much as you can. Just think...it could be worse. You could have been married and lost half your stuff (like I did.....twice).
as the old addage goes...the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
as the old addage goes...the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
so your in college, pushing for a good career with a descent head on your shoulders. Nows the time to get some studying done, make some new friends and ride as much as you can. Just think...it could be worse. You could have been married and lost half your stuff (like I did.....twice).
as the old addage goes...the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.[/b]
Well said ! ^
u need to enjoy ur self why ur young and at college, youll find someone else 100 times better, when i was younger i was kinda crushed like u, so i said fck it no more relation ships for a while, so i just done my own thing for a couple years lived the single life, hanging with freinds partying etc, then all of sudden i stumbled across a awesome chick which is now my wife, dont beat up on ur self, go tag as much chicks as u can and enjoy the stuff u like doing!
You'll get over it man. I know it sucks right now. The best think you can try and do is keep yourself busy. Riding, hanging out with friends. Work on yourself and you'll eventually feel better.
Also try a hooker. Just make sure to wrap it up!
Also try a hooker. Just make sure to wrap it up!
you are certainly getting alot of that s**t happen to me posts and everyone has pretty much said the same thing. I am 32 years old and that s**t has also happen to me. Believe us when we tell you It will work out for the best. I wish I had as much help as you have now, when I thought that the girl of my dreams was gone forever. truth be told I am glad the B***H broke up with me because I found me a real woman with a sweet ass :thumbsup: and I married her. We have been together since 1996. I thought I lost my soulmate, but in reality she was just a stepping stone.
The old girlfriend that left me for the college boys she was runnin with is now unemployed and the mother of two kids. the father of the two kids is in prison for making and selling meth.
there are women out there that are dying to meet a good dude so be real and do what you do.
Im glad to see the ORG is more than just a quad site Im sure this kid appreciates it.
PS. When you start looking for chicks again, find you a cougar (older woman that likes young men) with lots of money. The quad parts will come easy. J/K
The old girlfriend that left me for the college boys she was runnin with is now unemployed and the mother of two kids. the father of the two kids is in prison for making and selling meth.
there are women out there that are dying to meet a good dude so be real and do what you do.
Im glad to see the ORG is more than just a quad site Im sure this kid appreciates it.
PS. When you start looking for chicks again, find you a cougar (older woman that likes young men) with lots of money. The quad parts will come easy. J/K
As said, life will go on, and there will be someone else more loyal out there for you....
Actually, you should thank her for revealing her true identity to you before you got 5 or 10 years down the road, with other joint obligations
like marriage, a house, kids, etc. Although you don't see it now, she has done you a big favor, and karma will undoubtedly pay her back...
Just don't fall for her crying and telling you she wants you back after the current fling dumps her cheatin' azz!
Keep your head up man! I'm a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason, although sometimes it is hard to see at first.
BTW- Since I'm a bettin' man, I'd say the other guy has been in the picture for much longer than "3 days"....
Take it easy-
Kris[/b]
Kris said it best.............
It seams like its the end of the world........ but what you don't see is that its just another opportunity to get back on your game and start doing it over again.... Remember when you first met her? how awesome it was...... well guess what.... its going to happen again but with another set of titties.....
Keep your head up and don't let this get to you man........ Girls will always come and go... its your TRUE friends that stay there always........
Now take a showa, get a haircut and catch up on your game... cause it gets a little rusty.......
and like Kris said........ dont fall for her crap when she DOES comeback.........
PS. When you start looking for chicks again, find you a cougar (older woman that likes young men) with lots of money. The quad parts will come easy. J/K[/b]
COUGARS!!!!! :rock:
Time to post up them pics of her she would never want anyone to see....LOL
reading that was just sad.
its sad to think that at 19 your whole world revolves around one girl. do your self a favor, come back one year from today and read your post and try and figure out why you felt how you do today. the hurt will be long gone.
sorry if that seems harsh, but i couldnt tell you how many times i thought my heart was broke, but a week later someone new would come along.
its time to do some shopping, you and her. if your ment to be you will be, dont burn the bridge either you may just get the chance to cross it again.
i dont think what she did is cheating, she moved away and met someone, broke it off with you THEN started seeing him.
dont be fooled by the liking all your hobbys either, eary in a relationship there are many things wemen do cause they want you to be happy, down the road it stops, weather it be quads, hunting, swallowing, snowmobiling, sking, ect, ect they all like to do stuff in the begining.
quit moping and go find your furture ex.
its sad to think that at 19 your whole world revolves around one girl. do your self a favor, come back one year from today and read your post and try and figure out why you felt how you do today. the hurt will be long gone.
sorry if that seems harsh, but i couldnt tell you how many times i thought my heart was broke, but a week later someone new would come along.
its time to do some shopping, you and her. if your ment to be you will be, dont burn the bridge either you may just get the chance to cross it again.
i dont think what she did is cheating, she moved away and met someone, broke it off with you THEN started seeing him.
dont be fooled by the liking all your hobbys either, eary in a relationship there are many things wemen do cause they want you to be happy, down the road it stops, weather it be quads, hunting, swallowing, snowmobiling, sking, ect, ect they all like to do stuff in the begining.
quit moping and go find your furture ex.
i say you go nail her best friend if she left one behind! :_specialED:
chicks suck....but they are awesome too...at 19 this will happen at least a few more times....my theory is keep the hopper full so when one leaves youve got others around to spend time with and ease the pain....nothing hurts more than to be the guy who blew off all their friends for their chick for a period of time...then she leaves one day and you look around and wonder why you have no buddys or other chicks in your llife....dont stress man...your plenty young enough to meet many more...and at 19...hell if i knew what i know now at 28 i would have banged everything that walked by...enjoy your youth...it doesnt get much better than college man!
chicks suck....but they are awesome too...at 19 this will happen at least a few more times....my theory is keep the hopper full so when one leaves youve got others around to spend time with and ease the pain....nothing hurts more than to be the guy who blew off all their friends for their chick for a period of time...then she leaves one day and you look around and wonder why you have no buddys or other chicks in your llife....dont stress man...your plenty young enough to meet many more...and at 19...hell if i knew what i know now at 28 i would have banged everything that walked by...enjoy your youth...it doesnt get much better than college man!
Time to post up them pics of her she would never want anyone to see....LOL[/b]
this was too friggin funny, hawk gave some good comments also, the long version of mine..lol
I say good!, you have your whole life to be old and married but only one time to be young and carefree.
dont mean it to be harsh but to many young guys think its the end of the world when it such a small event in your life JMO
dont mean it to be harsh but to many young guys think its the end of the world when it such a small event in your life JMO
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